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Anti-Bullying Support Toolkit

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This toolkit offers practical strategies for families to address bullying. It includes: 

  • Individual state specific school Bullying Prevention Polices  

  • Practical strategies to address bullying. 

If you don't see what you're looking for here, please take a look at our Bullying Support Hub for more information on cyberbullying, support services and more.

Before Taking Action

It’s important to gather clear, factual evidence. 

Taking the time to listen and document what’s happening can help you understand your kid’s experience and support schools to respond appropriately. 

Listen first 

Create a safe, calm space for your child to talk. Let them share what’s happening in their own words and reassure them they’ve done the right thing by telling you. Avoid interrupting or rushing to resolve the problem straight away. 

Write down the details 

Recording what’s happening helps build a clear picture over time. Try to note: 

  • Dates and times of incidents  

  • Where it happened 

  • Who was involved or witnessed it 

  • What was said or done, using your kid’s words where possible. 

Save any evidence 

If bullying is happening online or through messages: 

  • Take screenshots 

  • Keep files in a safe place 

  • Avoid editing or responding to messages before saving them 

Important tip: Try and save the evidence on your phone not your child's. Some apps can track when a screenshot has been taken, which might cause more harm.

Keep checking in 

Let your child know you’ll be there to listen and support them. Regular check-ins can help you notice patterns, changes or ongoing concerns. 

Raise the Issue with the School

Schools have a responsibility to respond to bullying and support student wellbeing.
Knowing who to contact and what information to share can make the process feel clearer and less stressful — and help you advocate confidently for your child.

Who to contact first

In most cases, start with:

  • Your child’s classroom teacher or year-level coordinator
  • A wellbeing lead, school counsellor or deputy principal (if available)

If you’re unsure who the right contact is, the school’s front office can help direct you.

What information to share

When raising concerns, focus on clear, factual information. This might include:

  • When and where incidents have occurred
  • Who was involved or witnessed the behaviour
  • How the bullying is affecting your child
  • Any evidence you’ve saved, such as screenshots or messages

Sharing written information can help ensure nothing is missed.

What a reasonable response looks like

A reasonable school response may include:

  • Acknowledging your concern
  • Explaining the next steps they will take
  • Providing a timeframe for follow-up
  • Taking steps to support your child’s safety and wellbeing

It’s okay to ask for clarity about how the issue will be addressed.

What to ask for in your first conversation or email

You may find it helpful to ask:

  • What actions will be taken to address the behaviour?
  • How will my child be supported in the meantime?
  • When will I hear back about progress?
  • Who should I contact if concerns continue?

State-Specific School Policies on Bullying

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Bullying Support Line

We offer a support line for people who need it most. If you or someone you love is being bullied, talk confidentially to one of our qualified counsellors.
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Bullying Support Hub

Our Bullying Support Hub is a safe, evidence-based space for young people and families to access practical tools, expert advice, and emotional support. Whether bullying is happening in person or online, we help you understand your options and take meaningful action.

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