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What is Sextortion?

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What is Sextortion?
Watch this quick explainer video to better understand sextortion and what to do if it happens to you.

So what is sextortion?

It’s when someone threatens to share sexual images or videos of a person unless they meet certain demands - often for money, further sexual content, or other actions.

Increasingly, children and young people, especially young males, are targeted through social media, gaming platforms, or messaging apps.

What to do if this happens to you

If something like this happens to you, you don't need to feel shame or be afraid of getting in trouble.

It is NOT your fault. The blackmailer is to blame.

Here's some steps to protect yourself:

  • Stop all contact with the person immediately.
  • Talk to a trusted adult so you can make a plan of action together
  • Save all evidence (messages, screenshots, usernames).
  • Report the incident to the Australian Centre to Counter Child Exploitation (ACCCE) or if the intimate image or video has been shared you can report it to the eSafety Commissioner, who can help get harmful content removed and provide support.
  • Contact the police if threats have been made or if your child is in immediate danger.

Some important don'ts

  • Don't delete images or messages as they can be used as evidence
  • Don't pay money as they'll likely continue to ask for more money

Asking for help

It can be scary to ask for help. But it's important that you do, because you shouldn't have to face this on your own.

If you need advice on how to ask for help, you can talk confidentially to someone from our Bullying Support Line. We can work through next steps together.

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If an image or video has already been shared you can report it to the eSafety Commissioner.

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